Protecting Your Mental Health During The Holidays
While the holiday season may be a time of joy for many, for others it can actually make depression and anxiety worse
Holidays aren’t magical for everyone. That’s because the “most wonderful time of the year” can be fraught with challenges and situations that affect our mental health.
Here are five ways to protect your mental health over the holidays:
1. (Too) great expectations
• You are not obliged to celebrate the holidays.
• Say no or setting boundaries.
• Ask yourself what you love about the holidays.
2. Merriment to the max
• You don’t have to buy things to show others that you care.
• Budget.
• Remind yourself of pitfalls or triggers when it comes to over-indulging.
• Don’t lose sight of exercise and sleep.
3. Trying to be the “perfect host”
• Delegate to others: ask others to help.
• Take a break from hosting, ask someone else to host this year.
4. Too much togetherness
• Remember that only you can choose what makes you happy.
• If you don’t want to stay, you’re allowed to leave.
• If you don’t want to go, you don’t have to.
5. Feeling left out in the cold
• Do something special for yourself: cook yourself your favorite foods or go to a movie.
• Volunteer. By helping others, you also boost your own mental health.
• Write letters and holiday cards with invitations to connect by phone.
If you are struggling, know that there is help and hope.
If, despite your best efforts, you feel overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety or sadness, or if your negative feelings are persistent or get in the way of your daily life, you should reach out for mental health support:
• Talk Suicide Canada call – 1-833-456-4566, text – 45645
• Suicide Crisis Helpline – 988
• Mental Health Helpline – Call 1-877-303-2642
• Addiction Helpline – Call 1-866-332-2322
• Crisis Text Line – Text CONNECT to 741741
• Family Violence – Find Supports – 310-1818 (call/text, online chat)
• Income Supports – 1-866-644-5135
• Indigenous Support Line – 1-844-944-4744
• Kids Help Phone – 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868