Steps 1 – 4 of Anxiety Canada’s – Our 12-step back to school checklist for parents
Follow these simple tips to help students minimize their anxiety on the first day back.
One week before school:
1. Start your School Sleep Routine – Routines can be relaxed in the summer, so a week prior to school is a good time to adjust the family schedule to get everyone back into morning and bedtime habits.
• Establish bedtimes for the school year and start following them
• Ensure the entire family is up when they would be for school
• For older children, give them their own alarm clock and let them practice using it
• Ensure that the entire family get involved so that your child doesn’t feel alone with these changes
2. Promote Healthy Eating Habits – Nutrition is extremely important; it’s hard to cope well when you are tired or hungry, so provide your child nutritious and frequent snacks and build in regular routines.
• Start having your meals around regular mealtimes
• Ask your child to help you create a school lunch menu for the first week of school
• Allow your child to pick out his or her favorite snacks
• Allow your child to help you plan your dinner meals; this way they will have a yummy dinner to look forward to
3. Shop for Supplies – Make picking out school supplies a fun task!
• Create a list of school supplies with your child
• Plan a fun shopping trip to pick out supplies
4. Encourage Your Child to Share His or Her Fears – Talk to your child about his or her worries and practice coping skills
• Touch base with your child at a regular time each day to discuss your child’s worries and encourage him or her to problem solve and plan
• Role-play with your child
• Focus on the positive aspects – ask your child to list the three things that they are most excited about on the first day
• Practice calm breathing with your child – they can learn to use this when her anxiety rises
• Develop cognitive coping cards that your child can use to help cope with anxiety a couple of days before school